Does it really matter?

Have you ever tried dating younger men? Was the experience worth it? Well, I’m just kind of curious how it would be to go out with someone younger than you and seeing how people would look at you and even how they would think about you guys.

You know I’ve never been in the situation so it kinda amazes me how women still manages to go out with their boyfriends younger than them. Though it doesn’t really matter for as long as you’re both single, you both feel the same way to each other, and you both know you’re not hurting anyone. After all, love knows no boundaries right? A cliché we always hear when it comes to love and romance.

I just remembered a friend from junior high. She’s such a lovely lady, has a strong charisma, stunning and gorgeous, and to top it off? A professional lawyer from a prestigious law firm. She was a good friend indeed. She helps even when people can’t afford to pay her services. She’s just so amazing that a lot of men admires and courts her. But no one could win her heart.

After a few months of hanging out, we suddenly found out that she’s still into the dating period. And she was seen couple of times dating younger men. And we discovered as well that after hundred of dates she have had, she finally met someone she really liked. Someone younger than her. But is it really a big deal to be seen dating younger men? Sure hell, it wasn’t a bad thing. I mean, it’s her life, it’s her choice and she has the freedom to choose whoever her heart beats for. I just don’t understand how people can oftentimes be cruel to someone they don’t even know. They way people think and look at her once she’s out with her boyfriend, woow.

Can’t this world understand how strange love works? That once you’re struck with someone, even you yourself can no longer hold on to your feelings and you just wanted to let the whole world know how happy and lucky you are to have finally met that person who can stay right next to you in good and in bad times. Course we can’t expect everyone to understand how love can be so mysterious because not everyone had the chance to experience what really is it in “love” that makes two people crazy about each other. The least we can do is understand that when people are in love, they could be so dumb and stupid about it.

Find out who you really need!

Looking for a new fling or a serious relationship perhaps? Why not try dating younger men or older men twice your age? You might say like “duh”. But you’ll never know what’s beyond their power of charisma, right?

Most women prefer dating older men because of the thought that they are matured enough especially with serious topics like building a healthy relationship and family in the future that impresses women. Their capability of providing a secure life is a turn on which women can’t deny. Also the reality that they’ve been in too many relationships (if there are), makes them look more responsible and careful each time they choose a partner. But hey, we’re not just talking ‘bout age here. Older men also possess a reputable aura or let’s say, they just know how to carry themselves to catch women’s attention. If they’ve been into a lot of relationships, well, surely they know how to manage their selves regardless of the age they’re carrying.

But other women would prefer dating younger men. Why? I think it’s because younger men are more fun to be with, more adventurous, more experimenting. I don’t mean to say that older men are not - but in terms of age, yes, but in terms of experience and how they do it, both are equal. Thing here is, men regardless of their age, experiences, capability, they all know how to deal with their dates that could turn into a long lasting relationship. The only difference is how they do things in their own way.

So whether you’re looking for a serious relationship, a fling, a date, or purely someone who can be there for you to hang out with, be mindful of what you really want and how you want it. After all, you have all the options you need in this whole wide world. You just need to be wise enough to choose whoever you want to have fun with. Either with old men or young, fat or thin, genius or clumsy, single or not. It all boils down to what would make you happy at the end of the day.

Just don’t forget one thing though - time will come, you surely need to be with someone who can spend the days with you.

Appreciating the Twists of Life

Ever planned being single? No heartaches, no sleepless nights, and no crying yourself to sleep.

Living a single life is fun if that’s what you’re after. There are no limitations and boundaries. You can have all the freedom - to go out at night without worrying someone’s gonna fetch you up while you’re having fun, to wear anything you prefer without thinking “he’s” not gonna like it, too see and flirt with anyone you want. Having a single life gives you as much fun and excitement as you want. You are your priority. Looking beautiful each day isn’t gonna be a problem since no one’s around whom you’ll get conscious when you don’t look pretty at all.

But isn’t it wonderful if after a long day of fun, you’ll come home to someone who can give you more happiness and makes you feel complete? Someone who can be proud of anything you do and anything you wear. Someone who’ll be there to cheer you up when you can’t find happiness outside. And someone who’s gonna love and accept who you are and what you are.

This is the sad truth of having a single life - we can have all the fun we want, but at the end of the day, we’ll still find ourselves wanting to spend our life with someone who can be there for us when the fun’s over.

But, romance isn’t just the sole factor in everyone else’s lives. People can still live happily even if it means being single. We still have our friends and family. And the world is big enough to limit ourselves in the idea that love completes us. It’s just a matter of appreciating things we have and what we don’t have.

Exploring your Options

Tired of the hassles of attending group and blind dates? Why not try online dating?

A modernized and fun way of meeting singles from the other half of the world. Online dating has been very famous for the past few years. Millions of singles have been so fond of joining different dating websites in the hope of finding their perfect match. Though not everyone is in favor of this new trend, we can’t deny the fact that online dating made the lives of the single souls more comfortable, convenient and exciting.

The old way of connecting with singles like attending group dates, blind dates, going to parties - is also fun. The thrills and chills of seeing that cute guy walking towards you, asks for your name then and offers you a drink or something, starting a conversation, the next date until the courting period. Everything’s exciting as it is. Especially the courting period where you’re able to receive flowers and chocolates every now and then, guy walks home with you, late at night calls and text messages, surprises during special occasions, and a lot more. Truth is, we can’t experience all of this with online dating. The process and the courting period are far more different.

With online dating, you’ll just be facing your computer screen all day. Exchanging messages to other members and having live chats. But one great thing with online dating is, you have the luxury to meet thousands of singles without preparing for a date and even if you’re having a bad hair day which stops you from going out. More important to girls because the hassle of going out with our monthly period that really sucks, God, I must say, I’ll prefer to meet my prince charming this way. Online dating can also be exciting if you just know how to deal with the situation and make things different and worth remembering.

So c’mon, what’s stopping you in exploring for your chances of meeting your perfect match? No one is, right? You can try the old fashion blind dates or have a glimpse of cute guys from different countries that could catch your attention. You might just love what you’ll discover.